Latest on Baby Rowan 11.28.07
November 28, 2007I thought I would pass this on concerning Caleb’s grandson. We have been praying for him for a number of months and I was struck by all the extra expenses they’ve uncured.
Bill,
I am not sure what to do with this, but maybe it is just something we need to pray about?
God bless,
Caleb
Dear family and friends,
I just want to take another moment to thank you all so much for your continued care, concern, prayers and support over this crazy year. Brian, the kids and I could not have made it this far if it weren’t for the awesome family and friends that God has placed in our life. We count our blessings every day, and you are all among them. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. You overwhelm us so often with your kindness, encouraging words and offers to help. It is truly amazing how much love this one little boy has inspired and how many lives his story has now touched. His medical issues and hospitalizations are trying on our family and the costs associated with all that he has going on, at times overwhelm us. But we know that God will provide the answers, the reasons, and the glory in His time. For now, we ask that you pray along with us that we make the right choices, regarding Rowan’s medical treatment as well as sound financial decisions and adjustments for our family as a whole.
What some of you do not know is that we also have had an unbelievable string of household repairs, weather damage, and replacement of almost every piece of major mechanical equipment in our home in the last two years. Along those lines, several of you have mentioned throughout this past year, what great candidates we would be for “Extreme Makeover Home Edition” on ABC, and I
usually laughed it off or said that there were people far worse off than we are who need this more. Well, as we’ve had more and more conversations with many of you, and with the increasingly complicated medical issues developing, repeat hospitalizations, and the medical bills starting to pile up, it has started to sound like it isn’t as far-fetched as we first thought. Each household disaster of course just happens to fall just below the insurance deductible preventing us from making an insurance claim, and yet they have come one on top of the other. Currently the roof needs to be replaced or repaired again, and we have ceiling or drywall damage in multiple rooms of the house and garage. These things wouldn’t be such a big deal if it weren’t for the fact that Rowan’s special formula is still not being covered by insurance because it is considered medical food, not medicine, and it costs up to $1000 a month. Then you also factor in my change in work status and income for obvious reasons, and I’m sure you can start to imagine the impact this has had on our families’ finances. Fortunately, Brian’s insurance is great, paying 100% of all covered expenses. But with so many specialist visits and prescription co-pays along with the items not covered- expenses really add up fast. We also just recently learned that at the end of September we maxed out for the year for all medical supplies and equipment expenses. So……. there are a few families who have started the ball rolling and are indeed nominating us for … “Extreme Makeover“. It sounds crazy, I know, but we are at the point now where we are saying, hey, why not? With Rowan’s immune system and the sterile procedures his care requires, a cleaner, healthier home with space for his equipment and care, is a real concern so this would not just improve our quality of life but definitely benefit his health as well. By applying for Extreme Home Makeover, we are not putting our hope and faith in “ABC”. Rather, we are putting everything in God’s hands, and this may be one way He will provide some relief. Or, He may not choose to provide through ABC. So, either way, we will just put it out there, trust in the Lord to provide our needs, wait and see.
The group of people nominating us is going to be working on getting footage and gathering written stories or reasons for nominating us from various people who have been blessed or touched by Rowan and his story. We are not soliciting you for anything, nor will we be offended if some of you have nothing to say, or no time to say it. Please know this from the bottom of our hearts. I just promised the individuals who are encouraging us in this endeavor that we would ask you if you’d like to participate. If you feel led to send an email describing why you would like to nominate and support us or would be willing to be video taped making a short statement, please let me know. We have no expectations, quota, or parameters for this. If you don’t want to participate, no explanation is necessary, and no offense will be taken.
Thank you for your support and prayers. Please do not feel bad for us. Our blessings far exceed our struggles, and we know one way or another God will provide and care for our family. Take care and God bless you all.
Carrie & Brian Windham
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